Terms

mansguy.com is coaching software. It keeps your notes on the women you are dating, and when you ask what to do next it answers from the published work of authors on dating and relationships, citing the book and page it drew on.

It is not therapy, counselling, medical care or legal advice, and it does not stand in for any of them. If you are in crisis or in danger, contact a local emergency or crisis line, not this service.

You must be 18 or older. The service is invite only for now, and an invite is for one person.

Your account is yours alone. Do not share your sign-in, and tell us if you think someone else has used it.

What you write about yourself and about her is private. It is shown to you and to no other user, and it is never sold or used to advertise to anyone.

To answer you, the service sends the relevant parts of your notes to the AI provider that generates the answer (Anthropic), under terms that forbid training on them. Sign-in is handled by Clerk, which holds your email address and nothing about her.

You can delete a woman, a conversation or your whole account at any time. Ask for a full deletion and every note you wrote is removed within 30 days.

The advisor gives one move, not five options, and cites where it came from. It can still be wrong about her, about you or about the moment. What you do is your decision, and the results are yours.

Do not use the service to deceive, pressure, stalk or harass anyone, or to get around a no. If a line of advice would do any of that, the advisor is meant to refuse, and the terms require you to as well.

The books and other work the advisor reasons from belong to their authors and publishers and are used under licence. You may read the answers you are given. You may not copy the underlying material out of the service, scrape or crawl it, or build another product on it.

The app is free while it is invite only. When paid plans open, every price is shown before you are charged, and nothing here changes a price you have already been shown.

Coaching is one charge for a set number of weeks with a coach, with the app included for those weeks. The price and what it includes are shown before you pay.

Renewing plans (monthly and quarterly) renew on their own at the end of each period until you cancel. The renewal amount and the next renewal date are shown at checkout and on your account page.

Cancelling takes effect at the end of the period you have paid for. You keep access until then, and nothing more is charged.

Lifetime is one charge for access as long as the service runs, under the fair-use terms below.

Your first charge on any plan is refundable in full for 7 days. Ask within the 7 days and the money goes back to the card it came from. No reason needed.

Renewals are not refunded. Cancel before the renewal date and the charge does not happen.

Coaching is refundable in full any time before your first call. Ask before the call and the money goes back to the card it came from. No reason needed. Once the first call has happened, coaching is not refunded.

If the service closes, unused prepaid time is refunded, and a lifetime plan bought in the previous twelve months is refunded in proportion to the months left of those twelve.

Every plan covers one man dating in earnest, not a script. There is a daily limit on advisor messages, shown in the app when you reach it. Automated or bulk use is throttled, and an account built to resell or extract the service is closed.

The service changes as it is built, and these terms will change with it. A change that affects your money or your notes is sent to your account email before it takes effect, with the date at the top of this page moved to match.

The service is provided as it is, without a promise that any particular outcome follows from using it. To the extent the law allows, our liability to you is limited to what you paid for the service in the twelve months before the claim. Nothing here removes rights the law gives you that cannot be waived.

These terms are governed by the law of the State of Washington, and a dispute that cannot be settled by talking is heard in the courts of that state.

Questions about these terms, refund requests and deletion requests go to hello@mansguy.com. Replies come from a person.