Privacy
This is what mansguy.com, run by Thought Spark AI LLC, holds about you, where it lives, who can see it and how to get rid of it. It is short because the answer is short: your notes are yours, and nobody else reads them.
1. What we hold
Your account. Your email address, and if you sign in with Google, the name and profile picture Google sends. Sign-in is handled by Clerk, which holds these and the record of when you signed in.
Your profile. Your name, your timezone and what you told the advisor about yourself in the first conversation and after it.
Your notes. The women you add, what you write about each of them, the dates and messages you log, your conversations with the advisor, your playbook runs and your answers in What you want. All of it is tied to your account and shown to no other user.
Page views. Vercel counts which pages are opened, without cookies and without a profile of you. It cannot tell one visitor from another across visits.
2. Where it lives
Your profile and notes are stored in a Supabase database in the eastern United States, and the service runs on Vercel. Both hold the data on our behalf and do not use it for anything of their own.
To answer a question, the service sends the relevant parts of your notes to Anthropic, the AI provider that generates the answer, under terms that forbid training on them. Nothing goes there until you ask.
3. What we do not do
Your notes are never sold, shared with advertisers, used to train a model or shown to another user. There are no advertising trackers on the site and no third-party cookies.
A person at Thought Spark AI can read the database when fixing a fault you have reported, and does not read it otherwise.
4. Cookies
Clerk sets the cookie that keeps you signed in, and nothing else does. Signing out clears it.
5. The waitlist
Joining the waitlist stores your email address with Clerk until you are invited or ask to be removed. To stop floods of sign-ups, the address of the connection is kept in memory for ten minutes and then forgotten. It is not written down.
6. Deleting
Email hello@mansguy.com from your account address to delete a woman, a conversation or your whole account. Deleting the account removes your profile and every note you wrote within 30 days, and your sign-in record with Clerk goes with it.
Ask in the same email if you want a copy of what we hold before it goes. Replies come from a person.
7. How long we keep it
As long as your account exists. There is no separate archive, and a deleted note is not kept in a backup for longer than the 30 days above.
8. Age
The service is for people 18 and older. We do not knowingly hold anything about anyone younger.
9. Changes
When the way we handle your data changes, this page changes first and the date at the top moves to match. A change that affects your notes is sent to your account email before it takes effect.
10. Contact
Questions about your data go to hello@mansguy.com. The terms cover everything else.